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Gay Men Who Don't Like Anal Sex Exist

Updated 24 Sep 20262,810 views
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Quick answer: how common is this really

More common than assumed. A survey of over 24,700 men by Indiana University and George Mason University found only about 35% had anal sex at their most recent encounter, while 75% had oral sex. This matches the figure the original article cites, confirming not enjoying anal sex is far from unusual.

Gay sex involves anal sex. Also known as backdoor sex. This may not always be to everyone's liking. This is because some recipients may have problems with their digestive system, damaged sphincters, or have eaten something bad. While wanting to turn and attack, it shrinks and does not stand up.

This may seem like a funny problem, but the security guard believes that many people have experienced such a problem. Like people all over the world who would like to pick up the following story to tell

gay couple
gay couple

, the myth of gays all over the world sees that being gay must only be offensive and defensive. This is because many people still lack knowledge about having sex with gay people, including most gay porn movies that reflect the image of happiness from having sex through the back door. It makes the image that being gay must definitely like sex.

Sex is an emotional experience. Whether you like it or not The feeling will still be real. Good sex is sex that considers your own feelings. But that doesn't mean that every time you have sex there has to be romance or love involved.

Research from George Mason University conducted an online survey of gay and bisexual men between the ages of their most recent sexual experiences. 18-60 across America, more than 25,000 people, without taking into account sexual behavior roles. It was found that

only 35% of gay and bisexual men had anal sex in their most recent sexual experience, with 70-75% preferring kissing, oral sex. Or take turns masturbating more. Many of the reasons why gays and bisexuals enjoy oral sex and handjobs is because it's not complicated and requires no preparation.

A man wearing a white hat stuck out his tongue
man stuck out his tongue

Dr. Lee Kinsey, sex therapist at The Montfort Group explains that good sex is complex. Therefore, there are times when penetrative sex does not create a positive experience for both the attacker and the receiver. There is also no teaching of good sex for gay men. How to have good sex has never been taught.

However, sexual activity is an art that goes beyond simply penile penetration. But seduction Stimulating the other person's emotions Including cleaning before and after is something that should never be forgotten. Get to know how to clean before having sex. Click.

From the same study it was found that Men over 40 are more satisfied with anal sex than their younger counterparts. 15-20%, which shows that those who have extensive experience with anal sex are more likely to find pleasure from anal sex than young gay men.

In addition, modern gay men are afraid of contracting HIV. and other sexually transmitted diseases Including shame, many gay men don't have anal sex. Even though PrEP is now available, it hasn't helped increase the number of people having anal sex. That's because PrEP doesn't reduce the pain when the defense opens the door to the offense. Read the article about PrEP and PEP. What's the difference? Who should take it? Click

What would gay sex be like if it weren't for penetration through the back door?

The word "external" is a term that most gay men know well. That is, having sex just outside. Using your hands or mouth to masturbate is a solution for gay sex where you can't agree on whether to be aggressive or passive. For some people, just hugging and kissing is happiness and it doesn't always have to be anal penetration.

Summary

If anyone doesn't like having sex through the back door. or there is no pleasure from penetration It is considered a taste. Because having sex with the sole goal of having sex in the back gets boring and repetitive. Because there are many things that we can do to make sex interesting, fun, and make your partner feel good.

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Some information from Huffpost

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Information updated 24 September 2026. General education only.

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